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I think jealousy gets a bum rap. I had this argument years ago on another site I was writing for at the time: jealousy itself isn't inherently bad; it's what you do with that jealousy. The article I linked talks about the paucity of "good" men, jobs, or college admissions that lead to women's competition with each other and the inevitable jealousy follows. (Provided you're a straight, upwardly mobile woman -- there's some unaddressed classism and straight-privilege going on here.) I don't have many feminist "click" moments, but one of my most salient was realizing I'm not being a traitor to "the sisterhood" if I'm not always happy for other women's successes, and -- gasp -- even a little jealous of them.
And the "mean girls" trope? I wish it would go away. It plays into the stereotype that women are supposed to be the world's moral centerboard. I don't want to be part of a feminism that tells me I have love and embrace every other woman simply because we're both part of the same system that privileges male over female.
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